Being on the receiving end of narcissistic abuse is like wearing a scarlet letter (A for abused). Potential dating prospects run away like we are possessed, and in many ways we are. — Dear Potential Prospect, I get it. When you know what we have experienced in a relationship with a full blown legit narcissist, your knee jerk reactions is that we must be damaged, crazy, toxic, ruined, baggage, broken, hopeless — so you do what any cautious person would do. . …