Stop Re-traumatizing Victims of Narcissistic Abuse
There are many reasons they cannot ‘just get over it’, and your reactions may be causing additional harm
It’s like telling a person with no limbs, “Just get up and walk.”
How is that going to happen?
They have no legs. They need prosthetics, assistive devices, physical therapy, and many more forms of support to get moving. It would be cruel and insensitive to blurt out such an absurd suggestion based on your lack of knowledge about it.
Narcissistic abuse recovery is not your typical generic run of the mill disentanglement or unpairing. It is something else entirely.
These unfortunate souls have been merged and fused with a pathologically disordered individual who infected them with their sickness.
According to the enlightened Robert Torbay,
“The narcissist is undead, decaying, fetid, a grinning eater of brains, a wide eyed devourer of the human heart — something quite demonic — Serial soul killers.
Serial cheating allows a constant current of wicked electricity to animate the corpse that is the narcissist. Eventually, once they have consumed the spirit of one partner, they can migrate to the sidepiece, at which…