Emotionally Mature, Decent, Healthy People Do NOT Discard and Destroy
They Dump, Go Silent, Erase, & Replace in a Heartbeat
When two people agree to certain terms and rules of engagement, profess allegiance and fidelity to one another, and attempt to grow a long term relationship, it goes without saying that honest and open communication are part of that coupling experience. But some people are above the law and do not play by the same rules as everyone else. While it may appear that they are all in for a period of time, these morally deficient humans have their own set of rules or lack thereof and are immune to the c expectations and restraints that regular poeple try to put on them. While some of these people who break hearts and create chaos may simply be immature a**holes, many of them are narcissists of some flavor. The hallmark qualities of narcissism are displayed with these individuals who never take responsibility for anything, blame others to keep their false personas squeeky clean, and possess zero empathy or compassion for the partners they harm in the cruelest of ways.
Silence is deadly.
It is the most egregious way to send the message that you do not exist, are invisible, and completely unworthy of any communication. It is a power grab to exert control, a mechanism to punish those who have fallen…