Before the Narcissist

Reclaiming Your Authentic Self After the Narcissist Hijacks Your Mind

The narcissist needs you to be their mother for a while so they can heal, then they discard you in an attempt to separate and become an individual. The only way a person with NPD knows to individuate is by pushing people away. They only feel they exist when they are not merged and fused with someone else which…



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Prajinta Pesqueda

Educator, aspiring humanist, composer of words. Survivor, warrior, healer, believer. Contact me at