The Black Hole After Narcissistic Abuse — “Now I lay me down to sleep I pray the Lord my soul to keep if I should die before I wake I pray the Lord my soul to take.” It’s been almost 2 years since the end of my marriage to a narcissistic psychopath. In the aftermath of his…

We are the sum total of our experiences and define ourselves by what we do and who we love. — My identity has been forged by a number of things. Life was not kind to me as a bi-racial female growing up in the Texas Panhandle in the 60’s and ’70s. Not only was the environment inhospitable to say the least, but my family was also plagued with mental illness…

People are traded like fungibles in the disposable life of a narcissistic psychopath — FUNGIBLE goods can be defined as something that is able to be replaced by another identical item; mutually interchangeable. It could be bitcoin or a number of other goods and services. Human beings are NOT a fungible commodity. They are a non-fungible asset. Maybe closer to something like an NFT…

But as a narcissist, you could not do the same for me — Love of mine, someday you will die But I’ll be close behind I’ll follow you into the dark No blinding light or tunnels to gates of white Just our hands clasped so tight Waiting for the hint of a spark If Heaven and Hell decide That they both are satisfied Illuminate the…

Welcome to the Era of Narcopaths — They Will Transform the World as We Know It — Welcome to the jungle, we’ve got fun and games We got everything you want honey, we know the names We are the people that can find whatever you may need If you got the money, honey, we got your disease In the jungle, welcome to the jungle Watch it bring you…

Working through the anger after realizing so much time was wasted on a person with narcissistic personality disorder — Melissa: For about two months after I was ruthlessly discarded, I drove around with an automatic weapon in the trunk of my car. I stalked him and made an elaborate foolproof plan to dispatch him to his maker. It was the only way I could ever have peace or justice…

Pitfalls that can sabotage recovery — Limerence is the state of being infatuated or obsessed with another person, typically experienced involuntarily and characterized by a strong desire for reciprocation of one’s feelings. Loneliness is the feeling we get when our need for rewarding social contact and relationships is not met. You will encounter both on the…

My favorite thinkers offer wisdom on healing- A Compilation Curated for Truth Seeker — Wisdom from Top Experts “The incapacity to commit oneself to any value system beyond one supplying self-serving needs usually indicates severe narcissistic pathology.” Otto Kernberg “The narcissist devours people, consumes their output, and casts the empty, writhing shells aside.” Dr. Sam Vaknin “The pandemic has made people reassess what’s important to them. And that…

Nature loads the gun, environments pull the trigger, and genetics stage the event — A Narcissist is Born Theories abound about what makes a person develop a malignant, pathological narcissistic personality disorder. They are semantics and complain that “personality” is a misnomer and “disorder” does not accurately comprise the magnitude of such a profound mental illness. There is so much that we do not know about mental illness…